The Broken Ones - The Strongest Ones!

"Your mental health is everything – prioritize it. Make the time as your life depends on it because it does." - Mel Robbins

When you see a mirror, what do you see in it?

"Your entire life || Your success || Your beauty || Your achievements || Your scars || Your fightbacks || Your struggles || Your broken wings || Your evolution"

The answer can be all of the above in one simple GO.

There is nobody in this world who has not seen bad phases in life. Although the way of dealing with this turmoil in life may vary from person to person.

Some might give up in the initial days of struggle only. Some might rise like ashes from fire becoming their best version. The way you handle these unwanted situations in your life defines you, the real, actual YOU.

"What mental health needs are more sunlight, more candor, more unashamed conversation about illnesses that affect not only individuals but their families as well." - Glenn Close

When you have problems in life, whatever form mental, emotional, physical,

Just take some time to Breathe || Just Breathe freely || Just Breathe the way it makes you feel hopeful || Just Breathe away all negativity inside you

Your struggles are the living proof that you are alive.

They come into your life to make you strong, better and take you all together to a different set of experiences.

When you fall, rise again, you discover many possibilities, strengths in yourself. You learn to face and manage difficult times with ease in your life.

Definitely - The broken ones are the strongest.

"Does what goes on inside show on the outside? Someone has

a great fire in his soul and nobody ever comes to warm

themselves at it, and passers-by see nothing but a little smoke

at the top of the chimney." - Vincent van Gogh

Keep Away - Save your Soul!

“Keeping bad company is like being in a germ-infested area. You never know what you’ll catch.” - Frank Sonnenberg

Have you ever got wronged by your friend?

Did you get betrayed at an unexpected level?

If the answer is Yes, trust me that's life.

Almost every one of us gets to befriend with few toxic, energy-draining people in life.

Who claims and showcases themselves to be your best friend, but they are enriched with powerful and infectious toxic energy. At whatever moment you realize the same, try to free yourself from them. Losing them will be your life's greatest WIN.

They can cause a lot of irreparable damage to your soul, thoughts, and happiness. So your first step should be to free yourself from their negativity and think only about your progression.

Save your soul buddy, before it's too late.

"Losing toxic friends is a great gain as it frees you from their poison." - Trialsandtests

How do you earn respect?

"If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you." - Fyodor Dostoyevsky

As a matter of fact - It's easy for you to admire someone you don’t know on the personal front. All the celebrity names fall into this category. Millions of Billions of you admire a Deepika Padukone, or a Sudha Murthy, or a Barack Obama for so many different reasons.

The alarming question is how many respect you after they know you personally. If I say personally, it means personally not an image or perception created by people for their fun or sense gratification. After they have watched you after they have spent a plenty amount of personal time with you.

As you see it, “KNOWN RESPECT” is far higher, far more expensive, and far more aspirational to earn, than "UNKNOWN RESPECT".

“Treat people the way you want to be treated. Talk to people the way you want to be talked to. Respect is earned, not given.” - Hussein Nishah

What makes you happy?

”I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” - Robin Williams

How often do you ask yourself, what makes you happy?

What are the norms for you to fit in your eternal happiness?

Are you stuck on the point that You’ll be happy when, You find a perfect partner for you. Your parents will start understanding your point of view. Your all efforts on the personal or professional front are valued. So are you also suffering from this - "You will be happy when"

When you add a “when” to your happiness, you make it conditional. That shows that someone else holds the accountability to do something that will make you smile and happy.

The safer and more convenient option is to own your life and happiness. To be happy alone. In the first place, happiness is a relationship with yourself. When you have that relationship right, you are sure to be happier in all other relationships.

“Being alone and sitting with our thoughts can lead to such growth and realizations that are rare in our everyday busy lives.” - Kourtney Kardashian

How can you change?

"The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress." - Charles Kettering

How often do you come across such comments or sentences?

You’ve changed so much. You are not the same person from the time we last met. Do you usually find people around you stating,

- You’ve changed a lot

- You were never like this

- You are not the same person anymore

And with this bombardment of sentences or comments, you get doubtful - Is that so? Have you changed a lot? Should you change? Should you not?

You start overthinking, most of the time that people will resent you. People will leave you alone if you aren’t who they want you to be anymore. So the eye-opener truth is that we all are bound to change. We often don’t realize it.

But it’s the understanding of the deliberate change that sets us apart. When people tell you’ve changed a lot, they never talk about how you’ve changed. It’s always about how they couldn’t make the much-needed change.

"Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts." - Arnold Bennett